One day at work, I saw an instant message window popped up on my screen from Mr. Ex boyfriend. What a surprise? Last time I talked to him was about 3months ago when he brutally attacked me saying I need to get a life and stay away from him. I wasn't stalking him or doing any sort of "psycho" behaviors, all I wanted was my money back that I lend him. So, what does he want from me? Of course, I was somewhat bitter about the whole break up situation, he goes off talking about his current girlfriend and how much he is enjoying his life. But what is the purpose of all this? He continues by telling me he finally found a way of his life and have a career path that I always wanted him to have. SO WHAT? And of course, the conversation turned sour since we just had to bring up our past and blame everything on each other.

From comparing the guys I dated with himself and degrading them in most immature ways to putting my body image down saying I was too fat for him but his current gf is so slim and sexy and that he loves her so much that he thinks she's his soulmate. Ummm, did I even ask you how you are doing and what you are thinking? What a jerk.

After that day, he repeatedly started coming online and telling me how happy he is for me that our relationship didn't work out and now I am living my life. But of course, at the end, he finishes with putting me down big time.

Why can't guys be cool and respectful after the break up. I never went upto his face and started blabbering about the guys I dated. I had respect for him and for our three year relationship we shared together.

I don't get his intentions. Does he want me to be jealous and give him attention? Obviously I am over him but not over how he treated me about our break up.

Guys are just....I DON'T GET IT!?